A monthly sex column written by Thotyssey resident sexpert LeNair Xavier, Some images NSFW.
- Being a More Sexually Liberated You (12.27.2023)
- Is #RawIsLaw A Wrong Law? (9.28.2023)
- Earn Your Words & Actions (7.5.2023)
- I’m HIV+… But I Forget (5.18.2023)
- My Sex Appeal At 30 Plus Is Not Dependent Upon Young Lust (3.22.2023)
- Shame In Bags & Clothing (2.20.2023)
- Gay Indoctrinations Ruining Your Sex Life #2: Losing Our Imagination (12.19.2022)
- Hook-Up Pic Tutorial (8.29.2022)
- Sex is a Celebration (6.9.2022)
- How To Masturbate… What You’re NOT Seeing (5.22.2022)
- Tops Spread STIs, Too (3.28.2022)
- My Virginity Loss Did Not Make My Sexuality (2.28.2022)
- Sex Space Behavior Post-Lockdown (1.27.2022)
- Do Trans Males Top Cis Males? (11.4.2021)
- Gay Indoctrinations Ruining Your Sex Life #1: The White Lies (10.1.2021)
- So Many Bottoms Amongst Us (5.25.2021)
- For Your Consideration, My Go-To Lubes (4.20.2021)
- Born 1971, And My Sex Appeal Is Far From Done (3.16.2021)
- Head to a Gaming Head (1.27.2021)
- I Like Porn Viewers, But Can’t Stand Porn Fans (12.30.2020)
- He Made Me Talk About Pulling Out (11.20.2020)
- Why Pulling Out Hurts All Parties (9.23.2020)
- Dear First Prospective Top Since Quarantine (8.17.2020)
- Virtual Sex Parties… What? Where? For How Long? (7.22.2020)
- I ♥ My Crop Tops, And I Can Top (6.24.2020)
- Sacrificing Intimacy… For Fansite Content!? (5.26.2020)
- What’s Coming Post-Quarantine At Sex Positive Spaces (4.19.2020)
- Is “Bisexual” an Outdated Term? (1.30.2020)
- The 2 Different Blowjobs (12.18.2019)
- I Don’t Believe In Total Bottoms (10.14.2019)
- The Perks of Hooking Up With A Sex Blogger (9.9.2019)
- My Public Sex Is Not To Validate My Sexuality (8.8.2019)
- Celebrating Pride With Sex Is Not a Sin (7.16.2019)
- When I Maturbate (5.26.2019)
- Cum Is Disgusting… WTF!!! (3.27.2019)
- Be A Great 3 In A Couple’s 3some (11.7.2018)
- So You Think You Can Host a Sex Party (9.24.2018)
- Gay Disrespect for the “B” in LGBT (9.3.2018)
- Sexual Vicarious Living, Or Get Inspired (7.20.2018)
- 4 Blowjob Tricks, 5 Rules of BJ Etiquette (6.11.2018)
- Cum Dump: Fantasy Vs. Reality (5.14.2018)
- What Not To Wear – LeNair’s Sex Party Edition (4.16.2018)
- STIs…Don’t Do Blame, Don’t Do Shame (3.7.2018)
- Coming Out At 30… What Did I Miss? (2.6.2018)
- Anal Sex: No Jizz Required! (1.8.2018)
- Need A Sex Space That Dark?…You Don’t Have The Heart (12.4.2017)
- 5 to Thrive with Casual Sex (11.6.2017)
- Even Naked, I Have A Right To NO (10.17.2017)
- 8 Years Since Porn & a Better Beyond (9.25.2017)
- Bottom-Shaming & Shame On All Parties (8.21.2017)
- NYC Exhibitionism Fading, Mr. Handsome NYC Resurrecting (7.24.2017)
- PRIDE-filled Sex Party/Backroom Rules (6.12.2017)
- 6 Sex Toys That Can Please Men, But Marketed To Women (5.23.2017)
- The Transgender Surprise (4.27.2017)
- Fetch My Drugs, Fetch My F**k” (3.27.2017)
- Still Saying ‘Clean’ in 2017? (2.21.2017)
- Sex & A Drag Queen’s Manhood (1.9.2017)
- Many Black Tops… So Many Non-Black Bottoms (12.12.2016)
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